With more than 43 million people in the U.S. now 65 and older — and 10,000 more hitting that mark every day — aging Americans are a natural target market for self-driving vehicles. Mobility concerns (like getting to the doctor or the grocery store, and seeing family and friends) become paramount for seniors, especially since 79 percent live in suburbs and rural areas. Self-Driven Cars Promise Freedom for California Seniors
California is a mecca for automation and already has bills in place to pave the way for self-driving vehicles on public roads. Automation could be a boon for the elderly, but in order for the Golden State to maintain its upswing, it’ll also need to address mounting concerns about the technology itself.
California Creates Safety and Performance Standards
In 2012, California enacted SB 1298, which mandates that the Department of the California Highway Patrol adopt performance requirements and safety standards that make sure autonomous vehicles operate safely on public roads within the state. The bill also allows driverless cars to be tested and operated on the public roads within California as long as they adhere to the performance requirements and safety standards required by the bill.
All of this might seem like common sense, but driverless cars still represent relatively new technology that requires an immense amount of testing, safety precautions, and legislation. But even so, the earliest phase of self-driving vehicles could be enormously beneficial for older drivers, as these systems are designed to improve reaction time and assist with steering control. You may even recall the semi-autonomous Tesla that transported its owner to the hospital when he suffered a pulmonary embolism on the freeway.
It’s important to note, too, that self-driving cars are poised to evolve in stages—beginning with driver assistance technology. Though the technology is in its infancy, the obsolescence of the driver is on the horizon, and what were once vital components of the automobile may become antiquated. Such relinquishing of control, however, is a foremost issue among senior drivers.
Yet Another Step toward Full Autonomy
A bit more localized, SB 1592 (passed in 2016) allows the Contra Costa Transportation Authority to conduct a pilot project that tests driverless cars that aren’t equipped with a steering wheel, brake pedal, an accelerator, or a driver inside the vehicle — as long as the testing is only conducted at safe, specific locations dictated by the bill, and as long as the vehicle only travels up to certain speeds.
This may seem a bit extreme, but driverless cars without these features are becoming the new norm. The more they’re tested, the safer they’ll become as manufacturers work on defects and fix potential safety hazards.
Theoretically, the results may prove staggering. Many seniors in the state of California live in remote regions, including Placer, Shasta, and Madera. Public transit and rideshare services in these areas can be scarce. But fully autonomous vehicles could help bridge the gap, enabling seniors to get around far more efficiently and on their own time.
This biggest hurdle, however, is building trust. To be sure, drivers of all ages are ambivalent about driverless cars—but it’s particularly disconcerting for seniors who are most concerned about technological failure. Even cutting-edge technology isn’t immune to defects, and should an issue arise on the road, seniors will have to know what to do. That means creating technology that not only has near-zero risk but is also extremely intuitive for users of all ages.
Federal guidelines
The U.S. Department of Transportation (DOT) stated, “The development of advanced automated vehicle safety technologies, including fully self-driving cars, may prove to be the greatest personal transportation revolution since the popularization of the personal automobile nearly a century ago.”
Similar to California’s bills, the DoT has proposed requiring all new light vehicles to be equipped with autonomous technology—namely, vehicle-to-vehicle (V2V) communication. Part of the proposal aims to standardize the language through which vehicles talk to each other about braking status, speed, and even road conditions. It is with this high-volume exchange of information that vehicles can become progressively more autonomous and thereby safer. For older drivers, particularly aged 70 and up, it could mean not only increased mobility and independence, but also savings on auto insurance premiums.
Remember, car insurance rates are determined, in large part, by risk profiles assigned to individual drivers. Because V2V communication helps remove much of that risk, older drivers who would’ve otherwise seen higher premiums might actually save instead. What’s more, that high-octane data could potentially be leveraged to create prodigiously tailored pricing profiles, which can lower costs all the more.
There is a caveat: Consumers—particularly older (and savvier) generations—may not be too keen on having such granular information being collected about them. While the data being exchanged and accrued mostly pertains to driving habits—around which V2V systems tailor their functions to improve autonomy—it could still amass raw data about where drivers live, when they drive, and what they see on frequent routes. The automobile could therefore become an invaluable data repository coveted by companies and even hackers.
For this reason, The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) is pushing for regulations that assure consumers know how their data is being shared and used. The bill has yet to be fully fleshed out and is being met with a fair degree of industry resistance. State-level oversite could help set a more promising trajectory.
Will Senior Drivers Embrace Driverless Tech?
California is the vanguard of driverless car technology. As such, automakers and regulatory bodies in the Golden State need to work with skeptics to ensure the technology is intuitive, and that safety and privacy concerns are addressed. Among the most skeptical of the driverless car are the very people who could benefit from it the most. It’s only when manufacturers are successful in mitigating warranted concerns among seniors that the self-driving tech can really take off.
By Stephanie Braun
Stephanie Braun is a director of Auto Product Management at Esurance, where she is responsible for designing the company’s auto product lines and managing telematics programs like DriveSense Mobile. Stephanie has 11 years of experience in the industry, focused primarily on product design and launch, pricing and product innovation. She currently writes for Esurance about auto innovations and their effects on the insurance industry.
The attachable bidet makes the bidet a bathroom fixture that can be installed in virtually any bathroom. You no longer need to set aside a separate corner for a bidet. Instead, you can have this fixture installed right on your toilet seat. The bidet will use the same source of water as the toilet. Some bidets may also need a source of electricity, but outlets are typically within reach. There’s an attachable bidet to suit any needs as long as you know what you’re looking for. If you’re new to the idea of a bidet, there are several factors that will help you find the best product for your needs. Attachable Bidets for Any Bathroom
There are many different types of bidets. Considering your needs may help you choose the right one. Consider these questions.
Do you have difficulty maneuvering in the bathroom?
If so, a bidet with a wireless remote will ensure that you can always reach the controls.
Do you find the toilet to be cold and uncomfortable, especially in winter?
A bidet toilet seat that’s heated will solve this problem and make the bathroom much more comfortable.
Do you suffer from constipation?
Look for a bidet with a massage or pulsation feature. This type of water stream can ease constipation.
Do you have small children who have trouble finding the bathroom at night?
Some bidet toilet seats come equipped with a nightlight beneath the rim that can solve this problem.
Are you intimidated by a lot of different features on the bidet?
Look for a basic installation that has only a few settings. This will make the bidet more comfortable for new users.
There’s truly a bidet available for every type of user. Look around and find a design that you’re comfortable with. Pictures, extensive product descriptions, and even videos are available to help you make your choice. Bio Bidet customer representatives are happy to help if you need more information. There’s an attachable bidet available to suit any home.
What’s the recipe for a perfect anniversary getaway? A mix of luxury, adventure, relaxation, and culture—with a healthy sprinkle of romance mixed in. These four destinations offer all of the above, and each brings its own unique cultural elements to the table. Celebrate your love with a sunrise hot air balloon ride over the desert, soak in remote natural hot springs, take a luxury train ride on your way to time-worn ruins, or hike to a mountaintop monastery. 4 Lesser Known International Anniversary Destinations
Jordan
For an anniversary celebration packed with history, hospitality, and panoramic landscapes, head to the tiny Middle Eastern kingdom of Jordan. One of the most welcoming countries on the planet, Jordan is full of surprising ways to revisit its ancient sites. Take part in the “Petra By Night” experience to see the wondrous Nabatean city under the stars—you’ll sip Bedouin tea and enjoy traditional music by candlelight in front of the famous facade of the Treasury Building. Stay nearby at the posh Hyatt Zaman (no connection to the international chain). Once a traditional village, the sprawling property maintained many original architectural features, including impressive stone archways in the high-ceilinged guest rooms. Couples can also opt for a sunrise hot air balloon ride over the desert wilderness of Wadi Rum, spa treatments for two with locally sourced products at the many high-end Dead Sea resorts, and cooking classes taught by Jordanian chefs in metropolitan Amman.
Iceland
Hot springs, volcanoes, more hot springs, waterfalls—and did we mention hot springs? Iceland is globally known as a destination full of geological wonders, making it a unique (and uniquely photogenic) anniversary destination. Head to the Westfjords region for dramatic scenery without the crowds, and rent kayaks in Isafjordur for coastal exploration—keep your eyes peeled for puffins, seals, and even whales. Hotel Isafjordur makes a great base, offering scenic views and comfortable rooms. Or see it all from the air, via a helicopter tour from Reykjavik. Enjoy a birds’-eye view of otherwise crowded areas like Gullfoss Falls, and make landings at a number of otherwise hard-to-reach spots, including the top of a glacier and the Hengill geothermal fields. And of course, spend plenty of time soaking in the many aforementioned steamy mineral pools that dot the country. The Blue Lagoon is a classic and romantic choice, but the Myvatn Nature Baths in northern Iceland is just as beautiful with far fewer tourists.
Peru
Machu Picchu is on many a bucket list, and the journey to get there is easier than you may think. Take a luxury train ride to nearby Aguas Calientes via the Vistadome train—its windows are optimized for scenery-gazing, and you’ll enjoy the properly fancy breakfast service. After you’ve had your fill of the Incan citadel in the sky, spend some time getting to know Cusco, the charming, culture-filled city that was once the Incan capital. Take a chocolate-making workshop at the Choco Museo or wander the city’s iconic textile markets in search of an authentic souvenir. You can even renew your vows in a traditional Andean ceremony under the stars at the Cusco planetarium. Then head to the Peruvian Amazon for a luxury river cruise in the Reserva Nacional Pacaya-Samiria, complete with wildlife watching, cushy accommodations, and champagne dinners between stops. Or, stay in an upscale eco-lodge—some even have treehouse-style rooms available for a particularly memorable evening.
Bhutan
Bhutan, a South Asian country nestled high in the Himalaya between India, Nepal, and Tibet, is one of the few accessible destinations that still carries an air of mystery. This is due in large part to restrictions on independent travel—all visitors are required to have an official guide and pay a daily tariff. This minor piece of bureaucracy gives way to major rewards: pinch-me panoramas of snowy peaks, meticulously detailed Buddhist architecture, and the opportunity to engage with a largely untouched culture. Hiking is a major activity here, and trails span from beginner-friendly to challenging; if you’re up for it, the leg-busting ascent to Tiger’s Nest monastery is beyond worth it. Other draws include bird-watching expeditions (Bhutan has more than 700 avian species) and cultural tours. There’s no shortage of luxury accommodations, either—check out the architectural mastery of the Gangtey Lodge in the Phobjikha Valley, or stay in the 5-star Zhiwa Ling Heritage, which boasts heated floors and an adjacent temple made with centuries-old timber.
Jennifer Kotlewski is a travel writer who has explored 29 countries. She curates travel advice and itineraries for kimkim.com, an online booking resource.
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No wonder it was called ‘washday’, because as far back as I can remember in the late 1940s and 1950s, it literally took up to a full day to complete the family weekly wash. Memories of Mother’s Washday
At our house in rural Cheshire, washday was traditionally a Monday, never ever on a Sunday, and never ever, on a bank holiday Monday.
The washday began early, with my mother, Lucy Amelia Pownall, lighting the boiler, located in the far corner of our kitchen.
She didn’t use firelighters, rather a piece of screwed up old newspaper, a few sticks of wood, with small pieces of coal on top.
The copper boiler was two thirds filled was warm water from the hot water tap, transferred by means of an enamel bucket.
Now it was time to introduce the clothes that needed washing, and it was always the ‘whites’ first. Mother added washing powder into the boiler, brands I remember included – Oxydol, Omo, Persil & Rinso.
Part of Mothers equipment on washday was a wooden stick, not any old stick, this was a very useful tool, which was about 2 feet long. It was 1-inch square at the end where you held it, and then it had been turned in a lathe, so that it tapered from a start point, about 4 inches from one end, becoming circular, and about 3/8-inch diameter at the opposite end.
She used this stick to periodically stir the water, whilst the clothes were in the boiler, and then to scoop them out of the very hot water, after about a good hour on the boil.
They were placed into an oval galvanised laundry tub, which had handles at either end. She then transferred them to the dolly tub that was located at the opposite end of the kitchen, where, it stood on the low level slatted wooden shelf of the laundry stand. She transferred clean hot water from the sink, again, by means of the enamel bucket
It was now the turn of the ‘dolly peg’ that was used to swish the clothes in the water with an agitating motion, applied by holding the handle with both hands.
This was the start of the rinsing process, which only lasted a few minutes. The laundry stick was then used to scoop out an item of washing, which was then fed through the wringer, thereby removing most of the water in preparation for the second rinse. Once through the mangle all the items from the white wash were stacked in the oval galvanised tub before going back into the dolly tub for the second and final rinse.
Having removed all the whites from the dolly tube the first rinse water was all ladled into the enamel bucket, and then poured down the sink.
When the dolly tub was empty once more, it was filled again, this time with cold water from the sink.
When all the whites had been returned into the dolly tub, Mother added a product known as a ‘dolly blue’.
A ‘dolly blue’ was about the size of an Oxo cube and it contained special ingredients to add to the whiteness of the finished washing. The ingredients comprised a mixture of synthetic ultramarine and baking soda, which were contained in a small muslin bag tied up with string.
The dolly blue bag was introduced to the second rinsing water and the dolly peg came into action one more time to give the washing a thorough swishing around to remove as much of the dirty as possible, whilst making sure that each item in the tub was exposed to the effects of the ‘dolly blue’.
The ‘dolly blue’ works by leaving a trace of blue dye in the washing and it’s this that gives the finished laundry a brilliant whiteness when exposed to the daylight.
The ‘dolly blue’ was saved afterwards, as they could be used several times before they needed replacing.
I always remember that a ‘dolly blue’ weighed one ounce, which is another bit of useless information stored in my memory!!
After the second rinse was completed, the items were passed through the ringer and then placed in a willow laundry basket, to be carried to the garden, where they were pegged out on the washing line.
If the weather was inclement, the items were hung in the kitchen on the maiden airer, which hung from the kitchen ceiling alongside the electric cooker.
The maiden airer which can still be purchased today, comprises several wooden slats mounted at each end in a metal bracket. There are two sets of pulleys secured to the ceiling, which support ropes attached the brackets, and these provide the means to hoist the assembled rack aloft, within close proximity of the ceiling.
The double rope leading from the pulleys was tied off to a wall mounted, cleat hook bracket, located at a accessible height.
The airer when not in use was stored at its highest position, and when it was to be used, it was first lowered, loaded with the damp washing, and then elevated as high as possible. A knot was tied in the twin ropes to act as a stop when it reached the set of twin pulleys, and this held the rack firmly at its lowest position. When the loaded rack had been hoisted aloft, the twin ropes were tied off and secured around a wall mounted cleat bracket.
Mother also had a folding wooden clothes maid, which she used on inclement weather days to dry the larger items of washing such as double bed cotton sheets. This was positioned in the living room, in front of the open coal fire.
I shall always remember Mother’s washday, which was jolly hard work in those post war days.
Anyone wishing me to elaborate upon any of the equipment used during Mother’s washday are welcome to get in touch pownall27@btinternet.com.
By Chris R. Pownall
I was a WW2 baby, born in 1943 in the rural village of Bosley, located in Central England. My Father Robert passed away when I was just 9 years of age, leaving my Mother, Lucy Amelia, widowed, with me and my elder Sister, Cynthia to look after.
I left school before my 15thbirthday with no academic qualifications to my name, but I managed to secure an engineering apprenticeship at a local mill and they sponsored my further education until I was 22 years of age.
I joined the Merchant Navy for a brief spell, sailing as an engineering officer with the famous Blue Funnel Line. My ship was named Talthybius, and she had been constructed in the USA in 1944.
I later met my wife Pat, and I embarked upon a 40-year career with a global engineering manufacturing company.
When I retired, I began writing about my life story plus other things, and details of all my publications to date can be found by visiting my website https://chrispownall.weebly.com/
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My memories of Mothers kitchen go back to the late 1940s when the Pownall family resided at 3 Penn Bridge, Bosley, which is a small rural village, located in Cheshire, England.
Our house was one of five local authority owned properties that had been built during WW2, circa 1940.
The house comprised two rooms on the ground floor level, one being a living room, and the other was the kitchen. For some reason, this type of property generally occupied by the working class population, generally referred to the kitchen as the ‘back kitchen’. I don’t know the rationale behind this fact as there was certainly no front kitchen. Maybe it was because the back kitchen was normally located at the rear of the property and accessed from outside by means of a back door.
Upstairs, there were two bedrooms and a bathroom.
I can clearly recall the layout of Mothers kitchen, which had a small integral pantry, accessed by an internal door, also a coal place that occupied the space beneath the staircase, and this too was partitioned off by an internal door.
As for the kitchen itself, there was a single steel framed widow, an internal connecting door to the living room, plus a door leading outside that was known as our back door.
In front of the window stood a large rectangular, white glazed ‘Belfast’ sink that was supported on two brick pillars. The sink had a wooden draining board with both hot and cold-water taps.
I remember there was a wall mounted shelf beneath the draining board where mother stored her saucepans. Under the sink in the gap between the brick support pillars, there was a two gallon can containing paraffin.
We always had a supply of paraffin in this can as it was used in a heater in the bathroom, plus we used it to provide light from oil lamps whenever the electricity supply failed. I’ve also seen mother pour a little paraffin down the plug hole in the kitchen sink, presumably, this was done for cleaning purposes.
Opposite the sink there was a built-in washing boiler, also known in those days as a brick copper. Built into the corner of the kitchen, it comprised a brick sided enclosure into which was mounted a copper boiler with an open top. There was a fire box situated beneath the boiler with fire bars to support the solid fuel, and a space underneath to store the ashes. The fire compartment was closed off with a small cast iron door. The brick copper was finished off with a circular wooden lid to retain the heat.
The base area of the brick copper was about 4 feet x 4 feet, and the height from the floor was about another 4 feet. The boiler itself was approximately 30 inches in diameter and in the region of 18 inches deep.
Furnishing in the kitchen comprised a table although there were no chairs, as we never ate our food in the kitchen, it was just used as a work surface and for food preparation and baking operations.
There was a wooden tray on the table where all our cutlery was stored.
On another wall, there was a two-high cupboard, where mother kept all our crockery, and in the lower, deeper section, she stored other culinary items, such as nice glasses and bowls etc.
The only other items of kitchen furnishings were a shoe cupboard, plus a wooden stand, which housed the dolly tub on a low-level shelf, plus a manually operated washing wringer, mounted upon the top of the wooden stand.
We had an electric cooker, which stood on legs, I believe it was manufactured by the ‘Creda’ electric company.
The walls of the kitchen had not been rendered with plaster, rather they had been left with a raw brick finish that we kept smartly painted.
The décor was in two parts, the lower level up to about 5 feet from the floor was painted with gloss finish oil-based paint and the colour was always cream.
The upper walls were covered with a famous brand of water-based paint named ‘Walpamur’. It was very popular during the period of 1940/50s and I remember we used to purchase it from F.W. Woolworth in Macclesfield. This was good quality paint and it didn’t rub off onto your clothes.
The ceiling was painted white with a lower quality product, known as ‘Marvo’. This did rub off onto your clothes, but not a problem when used on the ceiling.
‘Walpamur’ was nicknamed ‘Wallop’, hence the vocal expression “walloping the walls” that is still around today.
It came in various size tins and it was in the form of a paste with the consistency of clotted cream. Before applying Walpamur to the walls you had to mix it with either a special letting down product supplied by the Walpamur company, or simply you could dilute the paste with cold water.
I can clearly remember the fragrant smell of Walpamur paste and whilst the smell is difficult to describe, to me, it had a crisp fresh odour that gave a good sense of wellbeing and cleanliness.
We used to spoon the paste from its distinctive green coloured tin, into a glazed terracotta container, and then add cold water, whilst at the same time, mixing it with a tapered stick that mother mainly used on washdays.
We were creatures of habit because the only Walpamur colour I ever remember in Mothers kitchen was ‘Spring Green’. This, with the cream painted lower walls, matched perfectly with the green linoleum that covered the concrete finished floor.
Also, on the floor, was a rug about 6 feet x 3 feet, made from coconut matting.
By Chris R. Pownall
I was a WW2 baby, born in 1943 in the rural village of Bosley, located in Central England. My Father Robert passed away when I was just 9 years of age, leaving my Mother, Lucy Amelia, widowed, with me and my elder Sister, Cynthia to look after.
I left school before my 15thbirthday with no academic qualifications to my name, but I managed to secure an engineering apprenticeship at a local mill and they sponsored my further education until I was 22 years of age.
I joined the Merchant Navy for a brief spell, sailing as an engineering officer with the famous Blue Funnel Line. My ship was named Talthybius, and she had been constructed in the USA in 1944.
I later met my wife Pat, and I embarked upon a 40-year career with a global engineering manufacturing company.
When I retired, I began writing about my life story plus other things, and details of all my publications to date can be found by visiting my website https://chrispownall.weebly.com/
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If you are an older adult, or caring for an aging senior, the topic of home instead of senior care has likely come up. But, you don’t have to move to an assisted living facility to get the care needed. There are ways to get help with personal issues, meals, and medication while still living at home. Choosing Your Home Instead of Senior Care
Home Instead of Senior Care
Make a plan to stay in your home while recognizing that your needs will likely change over time. Get the support you need today. Then, put the right steps in place for future decisions. Bring trusted loved ones and family members into the planning process. Often, it’s helpful to talk to a counselor who is experienced in senior issues, too. They will have a background of knowledge to help you.
Needing Home Support
If you are providing support for your loved one in their senior years, know that there are ways to maximize the experience, both for you and the older adult in your care.
Some concerns include the following:
Safety – Older adults are at a higher risk of being targeted for financial scams. Block their names from telemarketer lists. Secure the home at vulnerable entry points. Some find it is helpful to have an emergency alert system in place as well.
Meals – If you are concerned that, as you age, you are relying on more prepackaged or other unhealthy meals, or if you have a senior you love you are worried is making unhealthy food choices, put a system in place. Look into local community centers to find out if they are serving up healthy meals. Or start scheduling potluck dinners, for example.
Household chores – It is a familiar problem for individuals who move less, due to aging or mobility issues, to need help with housework, their yards, and shopping. Maybe hiring a cleaning service or scheduling regular grocery deliveries would help. Anything to reduce the stress experienced by a senior who is choosing their home instead of senior care should be looked into.
Other Common Needs of Support
Exploring transportation options – While remaining active is important for health, it is not always possible for individuals who are experiencing pain, mobility issues, or health concerns. Transportation options have to be in place for seniors. They also need to be able to secure doctor’s appointments and maintain the ability to purchase daily necessities, such as groceries and medications.
Activities and friends – Human beings are social animals. There is no reason to feel isolated and alone while living at home instead of senior care. Look into new ways to interact with others. Explore local senior center options or find volunteers, from family members to individuals in the community.
Talking through all of these issues, and more, with a counselor can bring relief. Reach out today.
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A question that has come up a few times is, “how do you know if you need to manage your parents’ finances?” It’s a difficult topic. Finances are usually private, even among family members. And sometimes, we think we know what’s best for our aging loved one but our bias or intention may not be as pure as we think. Recognize Signs Your Aging Parent Is Struggling With Money Management
I’ve had people tell me that they want to step in to handle their parent’s finances because their parent is spending too freely or not being as cautious as they would like with their spending. While you may not like how your loved one is spending money, it isn’t up to you to decide what he or she does with their money unless you are certain that they’re not able to manage on their own.
So, how do you know if it is time to step in?
Stepping In To Help Aging Parents With Finances
Not everyone will need help with their finances. In fact, many people will be able to manage their finances on their own until their last days. That being said, it is a good idea to have the discussion about finances, and even moving forward to handle the legal issuessurrounding caregiving, regardless of how healthy and capable your aging parent is. It will make things easier if they ever fall ill or get to a point where they can’t handle their finances.
Here are some common situations that come up that may make an adult child question their aging parent’s ability to manage their finances and whether they are valid reasons to step in.
Situation 1: Your mom has been purchasing expensive items for family members and/or close friends.
Is this a sign that she can’t manage her finances? Well, it depends on why she is gifting and how frequently she is doing it. If your mom has always been on a tight budget and has recently decided that she wants to make her loved ones happy while she’s around, there’s no reason to be concerned, so long as she can afford to do so. It also isn’t concerning if she has the means to do so and is paying her bills/managing her finances. You should be concerned if someone is coercing her into giftinglarge sums of money or if she is gifting money or items but can’t afford to do so.
Situation 2: Your mom is suddenly taking trips, visiting friends or making large purchases she didn’t make in the past.
Is this something to be concerned about? Well, no…unless she is going through all of her money in the process. If your mom is suddenly spending money more freely in the past, she may finally be comfortable that she has enough money to enjoy life a bit more. So long as she is able to support herself and manage her expenses in the future (meaning she’s not burning through everything now), it really isn’t your concern. While it may be frustrating because you may have been counting on an inheritance in the future, it is your mother’s money to spend.
Situation 3: Your mom has a new friend or boyfriend and she is thinking about adding that person to her will.
Is this something to be concerned about? Maybe. Does it seem like the person is coercing your mom into adding her to her will? Is your mom doing things with her money that are completely out of character. Of course, if your mom is lucky enough to make a good friend or meet a wonderful partner later in life, that should be celebrated. I would suggest speaking to your mother about holding offon making any long-term changes until the relationship is more established.
Situation 4: Your dad has piles of unopened mail stacking up and seems overwhelmed managing his budget.
Is this something to be concerned about? Yes. Your dad is likely struggling with the task of managing his finances. He may be embarrassed that he isn’t able to manage his own finances so broach the topic gently.
Before you try to step in to manage your parents’ finances, you need to think about whether you are doing it for the right reasons. Just because your parent isn’t spending his/her money how you think is right, doesn’t make it wrong.
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The bathroom is typically the most dangerous room in the home for elderly adults, but the kitchen isn’t far behind. Every year, thousands of American seniors suffer injuries in their kitchens. Some of those injuries are minor, like small cuts to fingers, but many of these injuries are serious or life-threatening. As family caregivers, we can help reduce these risks by designing safer kitchens for seniors. How Family Caregivers Can Design a Senior-Friendly Kitchen
How can you make the kitchen safer for your elderly mom, dad, or grandparent? Here are four key areas where smart kitchen design can reduce the risk of injury to elderly adults and make the kitchen more senior-friendly.
Non-Slip Flooring
One of the biggest injury risks for elderly adults is slippery flooring. Falls are the number one cause of accidental death among elderly adults, and low-traction flooring increases the risk of slips and trips. Unfortunately, many kitchens contain low-traction flooring, such as marble, granite, laminate, and certain types of vinyl and tile flooring. While easy to clean and visually attractive, these styles of flooring significantly increase the chance of accidents and injuries in the kitchen.
Changing floors to a less slippery option will make the kitchen safer for elderly adults, but not everyone has the funds for a costly re-flooring project. In that case, you may want to look for non-slip decals that can be applied to the floors. Another alternative is for family caregivers to buy rubber-soled slippers, indoor shoes, or non-slip socks for your loved one to wear any time they are in the kitchen.
Visibility & Lighting
Poor visibility is another risk factor for falls and accidents in the kitchen. That’s especially true for elderly adults, who suffer from poor eyesight at a higher rate than younger adults. Safe kitchen design for seniors requires family caregivers install adequate lighting to prevent mishaps and injuries.
When assessing lighting in the kitchen, remember to inspect all areas, including nooks, crannies, and out-of-the-way areas. If you’re able to re-light the kitchen, consider recessed lighting, which cuts down on shadows and glare, and under-cabinet lighting, which ensures that all countertop areas are visible.
Beyond lighting, the color scheme of the kitchen can also have an impact on its safety for elderly adults. A high-contrast color scheme is one of the best ways to help seniors with poor eyesight avoid accidents in the kitchen. In particular, having counters that contrast with their surroundings will make navigating the kitchen easier for seniors with vision problems.
Ease of Access
How easy is it for your loved one to access important items in the kitchen? Ideally, your loved one will be able to access everything he or she needs for most meals without having to bend, kneel, or stretch. These actions often put seniors in vulnerable, off-balance positions that increase their risk of falls.
If key items are out of immediate reach, it is a good idea to reorganize the kitchen storage in a way that prioritizes ease of access. Modern cabinet and drawer systems can be installed to make lower items easier to reach. Place the least-used items on higher shelves. These items should only be accessed by step ladder or, if a step ladder is unsafe for your loved one to use on their own, with the help of a family caregiver.
Accident Prevention & Preparedness
A senior-friendly kitchen should be modified to prevent some of the most serious and common actions that occur in kitchens. Family caregivers should also equip kitchens so that when accidents occur, seniors and caregivers can respond as quickly as possible.
Here are a few specific steps family caregivers can take to prevent and prepare for accidents in the kitchen.
- Install a quality smoke detector in the kitchen and perform regular testing to ensure that it is functioning properly.
- Do not store hazardous materials in any container that could be mistaken for holding something else, particularly by those with poor eyesight.
- Inspect all wires to make sure that they are in good condition, away from water, and cannot be tripped over.
- Lower the heat setting on the hot water heater to prevent the possibility of scalding or burns by hot water.
- Keep a fully stocked, easily accessible first aid kit in the kitchen.
- Post emergency numbers next to the phone, including the local numbers for emergency services, family doctors, and poison control.
Family Caregivers & Kitchen Safety
Senior-proofing the kitchen can be a time- and cost-intensive project, but it’s one that’s more than worthwhile when caring for an elderly loved one. But remember that senior safety doesn’t stop with senior-friendly kitchen design. Senior safety in the kitchen also depends on a strong support system from both family and professional caregivers.
Caregivers play a key role in elderly safety in the kitchen. Having a caregiver nearby means that seniors can ask for a helping hand when needed. It also means that if an emergency occurs, someone is there to quickly take action. Perhaps most important, having a caregiver also means that seniors can spend less time in the kitchen to begin with. Caregivers can put groceries away, prepare meals, and perform other kitchen tasks that might put seniors’ safety at risk.
A family member, friend, or care professional can fill the role of a caregiver. If you’re concerned about an elderly loved one’s safety in the kitchen and feel they need a caregiver with them more often, we encourage you to contact your local Visiting Angels® caregiver agency. Your local Visiting Angels office will be more than happy to discuss your options for caregiver services and coordinate a free in-home consultation for your loved one.
How Family Caregivers Can Design a Senior-Friendly Kitchen
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